26: The D.R.E.A.M. Method: A Manifestation Framework for Women Who Want More

If you’ve ever tried to “manifest” something — a new job, more money, your dream home, or even just more peace — you’ve probably realised it’s not as simple as just thinking positive thoughts and waiting for the universe to deliver.

Real manifestation isn’t about wishful thinking. It’s about alignment between your thoughts, your energy, your beliefs, and your actions.

And that’s where the D.R.E.A.M. Manifestation Method comes in.

This is the framework I used to call in a $50K trip for just $8K, to manifest the most beautiful, grounded relationship with my soulmate, and to clear over $30K of debt in four months before going on to save and invest over $30K in the same year.

It’s the same framework that helped me launch two aligned businesses, heal the parts of me that were afraid to be seen, and create a life that actually feels like mine — spacious, intentional, and abundant.

And now, I get to help ambitious women like you do the same. Whether you’re calling in a career that lights you up, a relationship that meets you fully, or a sense of purpose that runs deeper than achievement, the D.R.E.A.M. Method helps you create from clarity, not chaos.

From alignment, not pressure.

Let’s walk through it.

D – Define

Set your intention with detail.

Clarity is power. If you don’t know what you want, you’ll keep attracting more of what you don’t.

This first step is about getting specific. Not just about what you want, but why you want it. What will it give you? How will it feel when it’s yours? What does that version of you look like, think like, act like?

When you define your dream clearly, you give the universe (and your brain) a target to work toward.

After all, you wouldn’t just order ‘a coffee’ at a cafe. You would be specific when ordering your ‘large soy iced vanilla latte’ so the barista knows exactly what to bring you.

The Universe needs the same specificity.

R – Release

Let go of inner resistance and mental clutter.

Once you’ve set your intention, the next step is to clear what’s standing in the way. Because no matter how beautiful your vision is, if deep down you don’t believe it’s possible for you, you’ll block it.

This is the inner work. The mindset work. The shadow work.

It’s noticing the stories you tell yourself: “Who am I to want that?” “It’s too late for me.” “What if I fail?”And then choosing not to let them run the show.

Release can look like journaling, breathwork, somatic practices, or simply forgiving yourself for all the times you doubted your own power. It’s about decluttering the noise so your energy can finally move freely again. It’s about repetition. It is the really fucking uncomfortable part of manifestation though also the most essential and liberating.

You can’t step into your dream life while gripping tightly to the version of you who doesn’t believe she deserves it.

E – Embody

Match the vibe of your vision.

If there is one thing to take away from this, it’s that your desires are not attracted to who you want to be, they are magnetised by who you are.

So you need to become the version of you that already has the desire you’re calling in.

Manifestation isn’t about waiting.

It’s about becoming.

When you embody your desire, you start showing up as if it’s already yours. You make decisions from your future self, not your fearful self. You stop chasing, and start aligning.

Ask yourself: how would the version of me who already has what I want show up today? How would she think, feel, walk, speak, create, lead?

Then start doing that now.

A – Act

Take aligned action steps toward your goal.

This is where manifestation meets momentum.

The universe loves movement (but not frantic, fear-based movement). Aligned action is intentional. It comes from trust, not desperation.

You don’t need to know every step of the how. You just need to take the next right one. Send the email. Apply for the role. Post the thing. Sign up for the course. Have the hard conversation.

When you act in alignment, you show the universe (and yourself) that you’re serious. You’re not just wishing, you’re co-creating.

M – Make Space for the Magic

Surrender and have faith it’s already on its way.

This is the hardest part for high-achievers — the letting go.

But manifestation isn’t about controlling every outcome. It’s about trusting that once you’ve done your part, the rest is handled.

Making space for the magic means softening into surrender and allowing life to surprise you, allowing your dreams to unfold in ways you couldn’t have planned.

You don’t have to grip. You don’t have to chase. You just have to trust.

And that’s when the real magic happens. Not because you forced it, but because you finally believed you were worthy of it.

The D.R.E.A.M. Manifestation Method Summary

• D – Define: Know what you want and why you want it.

• R – Release: Clear the blocks, fears, and limiting beliefs.

• E – Embody: Live as if it’s already yours.

• A – Act: Take aligned, confident action.

• M – Make space for the magic: Trust, surrender, and let it flow.

Embodied Manifestation

Manifestation isn’t just another item on my never-ending to-do list anymore.

As busy women, we don’t need to pile more onto our plates. Instead, we can live our manifestations in the small, everyday moments.

For me, that looks like dedicated skincare rituals, choosing an outfit that makes me feel powerful, or cooking my organic meat on our stainless steel pan. These are little moments I treasure in my dream life and so it’s in these moments that I can truly step into the energy of my highest self and feel into the reality I’m creating.

Manifestation becomes less about forcing it and more about living it, moment by moment, as if it’s already here.

Epilogue

Manifestation isn’t a timeline. It’s a way of living. One where you’re in partnership with your purpose, your intuition, and something bigger than you.

So if you’ve been waiting for a sign, this is it:

Define it.

Release what’s holding you back.

Embody who you’re becoming.

Act with courage.

And make space for the magic.

Because your dream life isn’t somewhere out there.

It’s waiting for you to believe it’s already yours and start taking the action steps to bring it into reality.

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Happy Manifesting,

Renee Ella x